Overreacting

Over reacting. This is one of the personality faults that lots of people have. I, for an example.
I just realized how sudden and emotional I am when it comes to making decisions. I even ruined lots of good opportunities for myself by judging people and situations too early and then basically overreacting.
 As I keep growing I can see the mistakes I have been making all the way. Maybe that's because of the lack of intelligence in me? Maybe cause I am not so smart or it's just that I am simply Stupid!
It just makes me a little more hopeless and pity myself. Feels kind of miserable sometimes. Cause it's me who looses in the end. It feels terrible but there's a way to get out of it and learn to be Proactive.

1. Shut up. If you feel angry, just stay silent and relax. Leave, if you feel like.

2. Take your time. You don't have to answer the person right on the spot. Think about it calmly.

3. Sharing helps. If you feel confused, talk to someone you trust. May be your parents, siblings or your pals. You will feel good.

4. Don't feel like the other person is your enemy. Just stay positive. Think good. <3 feel loved.

5. Act like a mature person. Don't get really emotional or something. Chill.

6. Compromise. Accept the differences, tolerate and be supportive.

7. Talk to the other person patiently and discuss to make it work together. I am sure you can find a way.

8. Accept your mistakes. Apologize and Be Nice.

9. If you still can't find a way to deal with this. It's Okay. It's Okay if this doesn't work out. Sometimes life isn't fair. It happens. :)

10. Learn the lesson and Move On.

Shahid Afridi

Shahid Afridi - 
He is that same looser who was the sole reason when Pakistan won the T20 World Cup 2009,He is that same looser that led a bunch of sheep & turned them into lions and single-handedly took them to semi-final in 2011 World Cup,He is that same looser who holds the most world records from Pakistan, most sixes in odi, most man of the matches, won most of the matches for pakistan, fastest century in both test & odi which is still intactBtw after many many years, fastest spinner ever in cricket history, leading wicket takers in T20, one of the all time leading wicket takers in ODI, Only bowler who is a leg spin drifting master,
He is that same looser who strikes fear in bowlers & almost ended their careers... According to ICC he is an Einstein of cricket, favorite of Brain Lara, one of the greatest batsmen according to Tony Greig,
Ganguly said: we used to do special training for bowlers if Afridi was playing..
Yuvraj said: I hit 6 sixes but didn't even get as popular as Shahid Afridi"............
And the list just goes on to pile....

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Suicide..??

Wanna kill yourself? Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You’ve had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and take out that suicide note you’ve written and rewritten over and over and over You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab that bottle of pills and take them all.
Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time. A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you dinners ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells your mom this. Your mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell Dad that “Mommy is crying and sissy won’t wake up.” Your dad runs to your room. He looks at your mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mom crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying. The next day at school, there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how beautiful you really are. Your ex boyfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you.. He can’t handle it. He breaks down and starts crying, and runs out of the school. Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? She’s in shock. She can’t believe it. She knew what you were going through, but she never thought it would get that bad… Bad enough for you to end it. She can’t cry, she can’t feel anything. She stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out. It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that girl with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn’t know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big sister, you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, she stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground, she just loses it. She cries and cries and doesn’t stop for days. It’s two years later. The whole school talks to a counselor/therapist at least once a week. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t know how to love anymore and just sleeps around with girls. Your friends all go into depression. Your best friend? She tried to kill herself. She didn’t succeed like you did, but she tried…your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day. People care. You may not think so, but they do. Your choices don’t just effect you. They effect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Things can’t get better if you give up. I’m here for absolutely anyone that needs to talk, no matter who you are. Even if we’ve NEVER talked before, I’m here for you. It's not even a question to repost this, it's just the right thing.

No one knows how much this subject means to me, I love every single one of you.


(Though the post is copied from someone else, but I mean it. Just share your problems with me, please? )